He convinced me I was special and different and I was so desperate to get out of my house, that I shacked up with him and his mother in a two-bedroom apartment in Canoga Park.
She was very pretty, with bottle blonde hair, sparkling blue eyes, and a great, stunning body. " Fortunately all the signals leading up to that question were looking good a few key signs at I like: 1) Any girl that touches you while she talks. 2) Sitting towards you, in your direction as you coverse. 3) Mentions that she had breast reduction surgery because her breasts were "too big" and they are "perfect now" - another good sign. Oh, no, sorry - not on the first date." Hell, yes, I will come upstairs! The next few weeks drifted by and I start to notice an interesting trend with my new interest. When I say "black out" there is nothing that she remembers from the night before.
I feel kind of heartless writing that, but I’m thinking in terms of what I would tell my closest female friends or my sister if they asked me what you asked me.
There’s nothing wrong with being a supportive friend to him while he figures out his alcohol addiction.
But after a few months, you end up seeing other sides of each other. That’s a good sign at least, but there’s still plenty you don’t know about him.
You don’t know what triggers his drinking or what his follow-through is like in general.